From Single to a Woman in Love
December 7, 2009 by admin
Filed under Dating Advice
After a few months (or even years) on the dating market, you can easily get frustrated with your search for love. Experiencing a string of duds online and then the guy who you really clicked with doesn’t call. After being single for almost twenty years, I felt as if nothing was going to change. A great way to break the pattern is to learn how to be a woman in love.
If you have been single for a while, you start to identify yourself as a “single person.” Your experience in life will start repeating that scenario, just like a chain smoker. Your subconscious mind takes a carbon copy of yesterday and places it on today, experiencing most of your daily life in repetition. In order to make the leap from single to couple, you must first break from the identity of being a forever single.
Each time you visualize yourself in love, happy and fulfilled in a healthy relationship, your subconscious mind gets a new imprint of possibility. After a few weeks of visualizing daily or listening to self-hypnosis, your subconscious eventually will create a morphed copy that includes you in love and, ultimately, creating that reality for you in real life.You can also take part in activities that support the idea that you are already in love to really make a strong impression on your subconscious belief system.
As you start to see yourself as a woman who is in love right now in the present, you can allow that love into your life. This may sound hard to do, but it gets easier as you practice. You will never be 100% perfect with this until it does come to fruition, but all it takes is a slight adjustment to shift the tides of fate in your direction.
