Who do you blame for your love life?
March 12, 2009 by admin
Filed under Dating Tips, Relationships
Who has been the biggest influence on your romantic life? I used to think that my Dad had such a terrible impact and I blamed him for all of my romantic failures. I saw a strict, distant man and this limited way of looking at him only kept me in a cycle of heartache as I continued to attract emotionally-unavailable men.
After I healed that relationship and saw the real man behind the stern facade, something changed. He continued to have a big impact on my dating life because he showed me how loving and compassionate men can be even with their hard exterior. When I became aware of his gentler, loving side, I started being attracted to the nice guys which ultimately led me to the love of my life.
So, take a look deeper beyond the surface of the person you blame for your failed relationships and see if there is something more to them. By opening your mind to another possibility besides the old opinion you carried throughout your life, you may be surprised at what you discover about them. This relationship is the foundation of all others. What you see in them, you will see in all of your romantic partners. Isn’t it time to see something new?
