Fox News Alan Combs Interview – Hypnosis for Singles

Check out my latest television interview at Fox News in New York City about using hypnosis to attract love by changing your subconscious mind. I also discuss how hypnotherapy works for money and wealth. Fox News Strategy Room with Alan Colmes.

Love Mind Show – Fearless in Love

America’s Love Expert, Debra Berndt interviews Dr. Brenda Shoshanna, author of FEARLESS, The 7 Principles of Peace of Mind. Find out how to release fear and build fearless relationships in Fearless: The 7 Principles of Peace of Mind. Psychologist, speaker presents life changing exercises and guidelines to help you become confident, clear and resilient and reclaim your original wisdom and strength. Brenda Shoshanna is a psychologist, relationship expert, speaker and workshop leader. Her website is: www.becomefearless.org Fearless: The 7 Principles of Peace of Mind

 

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Addicted to Love? Science of a Break-Up

Fascinating interview with researcher about what happens in the brain when you go through a break-up. It is like breaking any drug addiction. Shift your mind with my Break-Up Recovery Set.

Debra on NBC News in DC

Check out Debra Berndt’s television interview about her new book, LET LOVE IN on the NBC Affiliate in Washington DC. Learn how your relationship with your father affects your love life.

Who is responsible for your single status?

In every single woman’s gal pal group, there is inevitably a conversation about the latest romantic tragedy. Whether it was the guy man who didn’t call or the guy who just broke your best-friend’s heart because he went back to his old girlfriend, the story has the same theme. There is always a victim and a perpetrator. The victim is typically the lady who feels shut out from love. The perpetrator can be a man, society, the community she lives in or the parents for past childhood abuse or neglect.  The lonely woman sees herself as powerless prey in the scary singles’ world trying to find her way to the safety of a man’s love. Impatiently waiting for some miracle of love that never seems to arrive, she resorts to complaining to her friends hoping that someday her ache will be understood and resolved. The victim never sees that she held the key to happiness all along. The perpetrator is not society, men or her parents but darkest thoughts of her own mind. By not taking responsibility for her life, she will continue the cycle of heartache proving that she is right and the world has wronged her. The cause of her suffering is not the man, but the thoughts about his rejection. She doesn’t realize that no one can hurt her unless she gives them permission. She holds the key to her heart and, unfortunately, freely gives it away at every chance she gets. Think about your last rejection. Is it the man’s problem that you liked him more than he liked you? Even if he was a manipulative jerk, he did not force you to give your heart away. There must have been a part of you that so wanted love that you were willing to give up any rational discrimination in order to experience a romantic connection.  It is easy to blame others and be the victim, but that renders you powerless and more vulnerable for continued heartache. As long as you believe that men have power over you, you will never be satisfied with yourself. Even if you do manage to catch a man for a long period of time, that relationship will be a never-ending internal battle of proving that you are good enough for him to stay. You will never be able to relax and always feel as if you are walking on glass around him so he will not leave you. By taking responsibility and acknowledging that you are the one who gave away your heart, you can take it back. You can practice being more discerning over who is worthy of your beautiful heart. Think of your heart as a loving, newborn baby. You wouldn’t hand an innocent child over to any stranger on the street unless you trusted him. So, why wouldn’t you protect your heart the way you would protect a baby? The reason women give their heart away so readily is because on some level they do not feel worthy enough of receiving love. The feel as though they have to convince the man that their love is good, but they are really trying to convince themselves. If that man returns the love, she will be okay. The man becomes her God. The first step to taking back your power is acknowledging that you are in control of who you give your affection (whether consciously or subconsciously). If you have a pattern of rejections, look within yourself to discover the root belief that is preventing you from standing in your power. Some root beliefs sound like: I am not good enough, I am unlovable, I am ugly, I am old, I am fat, I am nothing, I am invisible and so on. By using self-hypnosis, you can retrain those beliefs and naturally keep your boundaries and become attracted to men who match more supportive ideas. Read more

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